What Is Fun? Can I Have It? Will We Ever Have It Again?
Why We Love to Watch a Woman Brought Low
If Everything is ‘Trauma,’ Is Anything?
The Strange Teen Ritual of Sharing Lipgloss
The Limits of the Feminist Redemption Plot
When Saying ‘Yes’ Is Easier Than Saying ‘No’
The Tightrope of Testifying While Female
I’m Not Mad. That’s Just My RBF.
Ambition Has Always Been ‘Ladylike’
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Throwbacks
Polyamory. Gay marriage. Second life. Pink lipstick. That time I got a degree from the nation’s first pot school! When I wrote a Modern Love about my failed engagement. A creepy story about men who fall in love with dolls. An even creepier (and horrific) series about the pedophile Jerry Sandusky. A column on internet language! When I camped out with some “preppers.” That time I went to Florida to “find” Casey Anthony, which I failed to do. All of these and more stories coming as soon as I find the time to update this web page.